"Heroism Born from Suffering."
- Elissa Felder
- Jan 7
- 2 min read

Heroism Born in Suffering
Parshat Shemot opens not with redemption, but with pain.
The Torah tells us that a new king arose over Egypt “who did not know Joseph.”
With that forgetting comes fear, oppression, and cruelty. The Israelites are enslaved, their bodies broken by hard labor, their spirit crushed by decrees designed to erase them.
And yet, what is most striking about Shemot is that heroism does not appear as power or rebellion. It appears as quiet, moral courage in the face of unbearable suffering.
The midwives, Shifra and Puah, are commanded to kill the Hebrew baby boys. The Torah tells us: “They feared God and did not do as the king of Egypt commanded them.” They do not shout. They do not lead an uprising. They simply refuse to become instruments of cruelty.
This is the Torah’s first lesson in heroism: to fear God more than power.
Then we meet a mother who hides her child as long as she can, and when she can no longer protect him, places him in a basket on the Nile. This is not abandonment, it is an act of desperate love. She releases her child not because she gives up, but because she believes that life is still possible.
And then, Pharaoh’s daughter. A woman raised in the palace of oppression who sees a crying Hebrew baby and is moved. The Torah says “vatichmol alav”—she had compassion. In that moment, she crosses a boundary and chooses humanity over loyalty to her father.
Finally, Moses himself. Grown, protected, educated in privilege and yet when he sees an Egyptian beating a Hebrew slave, he cannot look away. “Vayar… vayeitzei el echav.” He goes out to his brothers. Moses becomes a leader not because of miracles, but because he sees suffering and refuses to normalize it.
Parshat Shemot teaches us that redemption begins when people respond to suffering with courage, compassion, and moral clarity.
Heroism is not the absence of fear. It is choosing decency when fear would be easier. It is refusing to harden our hearts when the world gives us every reason to do so.
This parsha speaks to anyone who has known pain, grief, or injustice.
It tells us that even in the darkest moments, our smallest choices matter.
A midwife who refuses.
A mother who hopes.
A princess who feels.
A man who steps forward.
And it reminds us that God’s presence is often revealed in the quiet bravery of human beings who refuse to let suffering have the final word.
May we learn from Shemot that even in times of great darkness, acts of compassion are seeds of redemption and that heroism is born precisely where suffering is greatest.
Much love
ssas



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